Romance Gets Better with Age

Love stories with gray hair

There is no time limit on love. Instinctively we all know this to be true.

And yet for some readers there’s a yuck factor involved when they think about older people falling in love. The idea of elders dating creeps them out. When they imagine romance they imagine young, physically fit, and attractive people falling head over heels for one another.

But love knows no boundaries.

Let’s take a step back and think about what makes a good love story. I would argue there needs to be passion, intimacy, and a surrendering of one’s self to another. While these aspects may look different as we age, they remain central to the magic of romance. It just takes willing hearts.

I enjoy having senior romances in my stories because they are complicated. Who doesn’t like reading about conflict, strong emotions, and hidden feelings?

Older adults have been to the rodeo, bought a few tee-shirts, and have scars to hide. They will not risk their hearts easily, but when they do, they have a better idea of who they are, what they want from a relationship, and how to make it work. I like watching them work through their insecurities, family issues, and past traumas to find love and companionship. As a reader I cheer them on through their struggles. In the end finding that special person to share one’s life with is one of the greatest blessings.

That’s what I’m musing about this fine Monday morning.

Have a great week.

I’ll see you between the lines,

Jo-Ann

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who btw would love to hear what you have to say on the topic of love. Please, leave your comments below.

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